Q & A 133

Stopped development of a child

A question and its answer given by Presence of the One on 14 January 2019

Question: Dear Father One, what causes that some young people who have reached the majority age, have completed secondary and even higher education still have their childish behaviour and thinking? What is the best thing to do to help them?

Answer: When a mother leaves her child due to an accident or when something extraordinary happens, which she did not foresee and want, and without having prepared herself for it, and without having prepared her child for it, it is possible from the experienced shock and the stress of her loss, the child's soul to stop to develop and to mature spiritually. Then the body continues to grow, but spiritually the person remains a child without the opportunity to reach the majority age in Spirituality regardless of its age.

The best thing to do in this case is: 
1. When this grown child, a man or a woman, meets his mother, they both forgive each other. Because the mother also has suffered much the loss of her child during that time. Her Soul has been hurt and the program and her task of teaching and supporting the spiritual development of this child was interrupted. 
2. To live some time together after this forgiveness – as long as it takes to complete the maturing program, showing each other extraordinary tenderness, Divine Love, and increased attention. Then the Souls of both of them are healed and the Soul of the child matures with an accelerated rate and reaches spiritual maturity.

Sometimes, however, it may happen that such a child-man is left without the opportunity to meet and live with his mother, as she has already left the incarnation or she is far away and they are both unable to meet for some reason, even though they want it, or she is unwilling to meet him. In these cases, another opportunity for him to reach majority age in spirituality is to fall in love and marry, and his wife to manage to be for him both a loving wife and a gentle and devoted like loving mother to him at first, until he matures and becomes a man. This second exception applies only to boys-men.

If case the growing up of the child was supported by a strongly loving grandmother and suddenly the relationship with both women was interrupted, the stress and shock in his Soul is double. Regardless of the age of the body of such a child, his Soul remains at the same age that was when the separation happened! And then it is very likely that the life of the child will continue as in a fog, as in a dream, and the child is confused, even though externally it is hard to see that. What actually happens is that such a child is vegetating through all of the following years, expecting his mother to return to his life – on the subtle plane, at the level of Soul.

It is extremely rare the loss of the father to lead the child's soul to such a stress that will interrupt its development if the child stays with his mother and she grows him/her with love, regardless of whether he/she is a boy or a girl. It is almost impossible for this to happen.

When such a person has sinned in his life, it is as if a child has sinned – without accumulating much karma because he is with a child's Soul and I AM Presence of the One recognise that.

Therefore, when you come across such a person, it is necessary to be without condemnation, but with understanding to him and his childlike manifestations.

Such a person even if he meets his mother or his wife if she is loving and patient to him, to his child's Soul, it will take time for his Soul to mature and grow children's manifestations so that they gradually disappear, one by one.

Have some understanding, be patient and have some Divine Love for such people. That is the best.

All that is said so far refers to those people-children who are representatives of the Light Network.

I AM Presence of the One

© Rositsa Avela